Host: Michael Toms Interview Date: 3/24/2010 Program Length: 1 Hour
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Program Description: Andrew Bienkowski grew up in Siberia, his family exiled by the Communist regime. In a life that began with nothing, living on soup made from discarded potato peelings, he learned that true wealth and happiness come from giving, and made his way observing the true value of gratitude, forgiveness, and understanding. With great humility and a smile, he weaves his plain-spoken wisdom with stories of survival and relationship, and the reminder that the things that really matter are available to each of us, every hour of every day. And of course, even the darkest days have their treasures to offer. As Mr. Bienkowski explains, "It's easy to be grateful for those things that are good. It's the very difficult, painful, awful experiences that are probably the most valuable because they teach us the most important lessons." And besides, he says, "We place too much emphasis in this culture on materialism, material possessions. When I look back on seventy-five years of my life, I can remember so many wealthy people who were very unhappy, and so many very poor people who were very happy." Spend an hour with this simple, quietly joyful, peaceful man, and you'll discover a renewed understanding of the beauty and bounty in your own life-just as it is.
Andrew Bienkowski, M.S., worked as a clinical psychologist for forty years, often connecting with institutionalized patients previously deemed hopeless. Since his retirement, he has continued to work as a teacher, lecturer, and hospice caregiver. He is the co-author with Mary Akers of One Life to Give: A Path to Finding Yourself by Helping Others (The Experiment 2010). To learn more about the work of Andrew Bienkowski go to www.OneLifeToGive.net
Topics explored in this dialogue:
What you need to let go of in order to become more loving
The single most valuable thing you can do for someone who is in trouble
Why fear is harmful
How you can turn your ability to listen into an ability to heal
What your loved ones need from you more than anything else